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Source: http://www.wikihow.com/Choose-Between-Two-Girls

Dont think things are going to work themselves out when you are choosing between two girls if you just let things go then you will be unhappy without the one you want.

1. Analyze your relationship with both girls. What do you actually want from each of the girls? Just a physical relation? Marriage? A fun time? Soul mate? This is a very important decision, or you’ll be stuck with something you don’t want.
2. What does one girl have that the other one doesn’t? If both are good looking, which one do you enjoy being with more? Which one are you more compatible with? Who do you have better conversations with? Who has the better family? Who do you have the most fun with? Who does your mother like the best?(She knows you the best so she will know who’s best for you, whether she knows the girls or not) Who do you try new things with (this is important if you are thinking about a long term relationship, a key factor is to have someone who keeps things light and wont get boring.)Answer all of these questions before moving on.
3. Make a table with one column for each girl, and list as many good qualities as you can think of.
4. Locate any qualities that both girls share, and cross them off the list. You are now left with a list of unique qualities that each girl has. Review these qualities and compare which ones you like best. The girl with the most and best unique qualities is most likely the one you should choose. Also if you want list the bad qualities and the one with the least bad qualities is also most likely the one you should choose.
5. Once you make your decision, be direct about it. Do not flip flop between the girls. Girls love it when you’re direct. Girls love actions. Do something in front of her friends (they probably think you are a jerk.)Remember actions speak louder than words. Figure out where she is one night and surprise Go up to her and just tell her, “I can’t bear to be without you.” She’ll melt. They go for that stuff, once in a while. Also remember anything can be fixed.